a woman sending her ex boyfriend a text messsageTechnology has changed the way that people do everything, so it should not be surprising that dating is on this list. With that said, it is possible to use texts to solve many conundrums. Whether you believe it or not, many women have successfully used them to lure back their ex boyfriends.  If you really want to get him back, then it may be possible for you to do it too if you do it right.

There is actually a whole course on getting your ex boyfriend back using text messages by a rather famous relationship expert called Michael Fiore. Many women have found his course to be dynamite effective and attribute the rekindling of their relationship to the help of Michael’s detailed course. You can find out more about it here.

Below are a few tips and tricks you can use to help to get your ex boyfriend back using your texts. However, please bear in mind that you really should learn how to do this properly if you are serious about getting him back. It’s not as easy as you may think and one wrong text could blow your chances completely. So if you want to avoid making a disastrous mistake without even realizing it then listen to what Michael Fiore has to say here.

Texting Tips You Can Use To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

The “Let’s Be Friends” Text

Even if you are pining over your ex and love him with every part of your being, sending him texts like that would not be such a good idea. Pleading is not a very attractive trait, so you need to make it seem like you are over it, or at least you’re getting there and have decided to move on.

One tactic that some women use is to send him a text suggesting that you’re interested in maintaining a friendship even though things did not work out between the two of you.

He will most likely find this refreshing, and it keeps the doorway of communication open between the two of you. If it’s possible he will allow you back into his life on a friendship basis, then you may be able to scale things up from here in time. Once you are there, you can slowly work on seducing him and winning him back.

See also: How to get him back if he has moved on

The “Oops Wrong Person” Text

You really do not want your ex to know that you are still crying over him every night while eating ice cream and listening to sad songs. One way to show him that you are doing the opposite would be to send a subtly flirty text and pretend like it was intended for someone else.

One example of this would be sending a text that says, “It was great seeing you last night. We should do it again soon.” Follow that up with a text that says, “Oops. I sent that to the wrong person, sorry.”

In many cases after a breakup, a person may think they don’t want the relationship anymore, but the idea of someone else spending time with you can have them rushing back into your arms.

The “Remember That Sexy Time” Text

Many believe that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but sexy texts are a much better idea. Instead of going on about how great the two of you were and how much you randomly miss him, think about a specific time when the chemistry between the two of you was off the charts.

Maybe you made love on a patio while on vacation, or you surprised him with a little private dance. Reminding him of these times will make him miss you so much that he may have to come back in order to re-live them.

See also: Getting your ex to want you back

The “Oh So Random” Text

Shooting him a text to tell him that you saw a show that he would like on Netflix or to remind him of a previous engagement you know he forgot is a great way to reel him back in. This is much better than throwing yourself at his mercy. The more normal and natural you can come across, the more likely it is he will be receptive to you.


It can be possible to win your ex boyfriend back by using text messages. However, bear in mind that it is unlikely to just be a set of simple texts and ‘bam’, he’s back in your life. If you use them correctly then they can open up the communication channels between the two of you again and get him to start remembering all the wonderful times he had with you.

Texts can be extremely effective and powerful. However, as many of us know, it is oh so easy to give someone the wrong impression or send the wrong message without realizing it via text so we would urge you to learn how to do this properly by following dating expert Michael Foire’s simple step-by-step instructions here.